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合格父母的三道关:用心陪伴、做好榜样、负责到位

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color: rgb(126, 194, 208); text-align: center;">﹏</section></section></section><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0em;">作者 |&nbsp;&nbsp;惜朝</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子是一张白纸,从一出生来到这个世界上,父母就是他的第一任老师。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section><p><br/></p><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">教育孩子是一场隆重且漫长的考试,孩子最终拥有怎样的人生,就看父母交出怎样的答卷。</span></section><p><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.621714px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);">用心陪伴</span></strong></p><p><br/></p><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">经常听到父母说,现在的孩子太难养了。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">买几本好一些的辅导书就没了好几百,报几个好一点的补习班就没了好几千。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“都忙着赚钱养家了,哪有时间陪孩子?”</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">可如果你不陪孩子,买再好的练习册孩子也不会做,报再好的补习班孩子也不会学。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">没有管教,教育等于零。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而陪伴,才是孩子最需要的教育。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">哈佛学霸詹青云,前年《奇葩说》的冠军,小时候成绩并不好。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">妈妈为了鼓励她,每年都说她下一年一定会逆袭,尽管一直落空。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">爸爸很开明,给她看各种各样的书,带她去出差,去看世界。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在父母的陪伴下,詹青云像太阳下的幼苗一样茁壮成长,不仅学习越来越好,整个人也越来越自信,优秀。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">好孩子是管出来的,优秀孩子是陪出来的。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父母的教育是有“有效期”的,一旦你不珍惜,错过了这个有效期,就会耽误孩子的成长。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有些父母陪是陪了,但不是做自己的事,就是玩手机、看电视、打麻将、只是“陪”在孩子身边而已。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">粗线条的孩子可能觉得手机有趣,连爸爸妈妈都舍不得放下,所以他们也迷上了手机。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">敏感的孩子却察觉到父母的忽视,认为自己不重要,与父母的距离也越来越远。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这样的陪伴没有引导,没有教育,更给不了孩子安全感和幸福感。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">陪伴不一定要时时守在身边,只要用心了,就是高质量的陪伴。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有一位老师天天早出晚归,无法亲自教育自己的孩子,于是他想到了一个办法。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">他让儿子把想说的话、想问的问题写下来放在茶几上,等他回家再一一解答、回复。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">虽然父亲不能常常陪伴儿子,但儿子学习生活中的开心、烦恼、疑惑、迷茫,他都参与其中。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这对父子在纸短情长之中对话,教育也在一来一回中发生。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在“父母”这个角色还有效的时间里,一定要给他们最用心的陪伴。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p><br/></p><p style="margin: 15px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);">做好榜样</span></strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p><br/></p><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有人说,如果家庭是复印纸,孩子是复印件,那么父母就是原件。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">复印件的成品如何,取决于原件的质量。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子是天生的模仿家,会无意识地模仿父母的一言一行,甚至连父母的小动作、口头禅都模仿得十分相似。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这种潜移默化的影响,我们可能察觉不了,但会改变孩子一生的模样。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母做好榜样,率先垂范,才是对孩子最好的习惯教育。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">曾国藩是清代著名的大臣,然而哪怕公事繁忙,他也会抽时间出来教育孩子。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">不仅时时过问孩子的读书学习情况,还亲自制定严格的学习计划,督促孩子执行。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">不仅要求孩子知书识礼,还要求他们做到“勤、孝、俭、仁、恒、谦”。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">小到吃饭走路,大到治国平天下,任何事情都严格要求,不允许孩子有丝毫懈怠。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">正因为曾国藩的严格管教,以身作则,曾氏一族才培养出很多卓有成就者。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">培养孩子的习惯,不能高高在上地指点,必须身临其境地示范。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父母都无法百分百做好,又如何要求孩子做得完美?</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">你和孩子的距离越近,孩子就越愿意亲近你,向你学习;</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">你对孩子的态度越恰当,孩子就越愿意尊重你,信任你的教育。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">作家列夫·托尔斯泰说过:</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">全部教育,或者说千分之九百九十九的教育都归结到榜样上,归结到父母自己生活的端正和完善上。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一个热爱学习的孩子,身后一定有一个做事严谨,耐心十足的母亲,有一个工作负责,积极上进的父亲。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一个热爱集体的孩子,他的家庭关系一定很和睦,父母相爱,也疼爱孩子,给予他无微不至的照顾和无言的信任与支持。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子未来能走多远,我们都不知道,但父母的教育格局,决定了孩子未来的高度。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母是孩子永恒的生命范本,你想让孩子成为一个什么样的人,你先做一个那样的人给他看。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p><br/></p><p style="margin: 15px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(5, 57, 81);">负责到位</span></strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p><br/></p><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一位教育专家说过一句很刻薄的话:</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“我们亲自把孩子生下来,却从来不把孩子当亲生的来养。”</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我们可能把孩子交给老一辈了,眼睁睁看着孩子被老人家宠坏;</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我们可能把孩子交给学校了,孩子出了问题就说,这是你们学校和老师的责任。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有一些父母,确实没尽好为人父母的责任。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">无数父母希望把孩子送去最好的学校,接受最好的教育,拼尽全力给孩子创造最好的教育环境,但往往忽略了,父母才是孩子最好的老师。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">教育是一场漫长的修行,每一个父母都要担负起对孩子的责任。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有个名人从来不抽烟,不是觉得抽烟不好,而是因为崇拜自己的“烟鬼”父亲。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在他很小的时候,父亲天天抽烟,而且一天要抽至少三包,弄得家里烟雾缭绕。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">他实在受不了了,就对父亲说:</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><blockquote class="" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="72" data-source-title="" style="margin: 1em 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px 16px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; line-height: normal;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“爸爸,烟的味道那么好吗?抽烟到底是什么滋味啊?”</span></strong></section><section style="margin: 0px 16px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; line-height: normal;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 0px 16px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; line-height: normal;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); letter-spacing: 1px;">“你喜欢吃饼干吧?对爸爸来说,这就跟饼干一样。”<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 0px 16px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; line-height: normal;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></strong></section><section style="margin: 0px 16px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; line-height: normal;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); letter-spacing: 1px;">“爸爸,我不喜欢你的饼干,你能不能不抽烟?”</span></strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section></blockquote></section></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父亲欲言又止,想了一会儿后反问儿子:</span></section><p><br/></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="32" data-source-title="" style="margin: 1em 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px 16px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; line-height: 2em;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“如果爸爸从现在开始不抽烟了,你长大后也能像爸爸一样不抽烟吗?”</span></strong></span></section></section></blockquote><p><br/></p><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">儿子拼命点头。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">从那以后,父亲再也没抽过烟,儿子也遵守了诺言。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父母的一言一行直接影响着孩子,父母的每一个决定都有可能改变孩子的人生。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">没有人能完完全全扛起确保孩子成长成才的责任,如果说教师负责教书育人,那么父母就要对孩子的一生负责。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">生娃难,更难的是不知道如何正确养娃,如何让孩子长得棒、自己也舒心。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">德国哲学家卡尔·雅斯贝尔说过:“教育的本质是一棵树摇动另一棵树,一朵云推动另一朵云,一个灵魂唤醒另一个灵魂。”</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(5, 57, 81); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">为了我们的孩子,请所有父母都成材,变得更强大。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px 0px; 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